Nannies, babysitters, and caregivers occupy an unusual space in tax law: some are treated as household employees of the families they work for, and others operate as genuinely independent, self-employed contractors juggling multiple families. Which category you fall into changes almost everything about your deductions.

Employee or independent contractor? This determines everything

2 statuses
household employee vs. independent contractor
Mileage
between multiple families is often deductible for contractors
W-2
most in-home nannies working for one family are legally employees

The IRS generally treats a nanny who works regular hours in one family's home, using the family's supplies and following the family's schedule, as a household employee — even if the family calls the arrangement "freelance" or pays cash. Household employees receive a W-2, not a 1099, and as W-2 workers they generally cannot deduct unreimbursed work expenses under current federal law. See our 1099 vs. W-2 tax deduction differences guide for why that classification matters so much.

By contrast, an independent caregiver who sets their own schedule, works for multiple families, brings their own supplies, and controls how the work gets done more closely resembles a true independent contractor, and can access the self-employed deductions below.

Deductions available to genuinely self-employed caregivers

  • Mileage driven between different families' homes during a workday (not the commute from your own home to the first job of the day).
  • Supplies you personally purchase for caregiving — activity materials, first-aid supplies, or specialized equipment not provided by the family.
  • CPR and first-aid certification costs, along with background-check fees if paid out of pocket.
  • Liability insurance, if you carry your own policy as an independent caregiver.
  • Marketing costs — a profile on a caregiving platform, business cards, or a simple website.

Mileage between clients

TripDeductible?
Home to your first family of the dayNo — this is a commute
Between two different families' homes during the dayYes
Last family's home back to yoursNo — this is a commute

This is the same commuting rule that applies across nearly every self-employed field — see our standard mileage rate guide for how the IRS defines deductible business mileage more broadly.

Related read: If a family you work for withholds taxes and issues you a W-2, most of the deductions on this page will not apply to you — confirm your worker classification before assuming self-employed status. Our 1099 vs. W-2 guide explains the practical test the IRS applies.

Self-employment tax if you qualify as a contractor

Genuinely self-employed caregivers owe self-employment tax on their net profit, and should generally make quarterly estimated payments rather than waiting until the April filing deadline. See our self-employment tax explainer and quarterly estimated taxes guide for the mechanics.

What household employees should do instead

If you're properly classified as a household employee, your focus should be on making sure the family withholds and reports correctly (via Schedule H on their own return) rather than trying to claim business deductions that don't apply to W-2 income. Misclassification is a common issue in this industry — if you suspect you should be a contractor but are being paid as one without any withholding, or vice versa, a tax professional can help sort out the correct treatment.

Frequently asked questions

Can I deduct childcare-related courses, like early childhood education classes?

If you are self-employed and the coursework maintains or improves skills in your existing caregiving work, it is generally deductible. If it qualifies you for an entirely new credential or career, the treatment can differ.

What if I babysit occasionally but it's not my main job?

Occasional, casual babysitting income is still taxable and should be reported, though the level of formal business deductions available may be more limited if the activity doesn't rise to the level of a regular trade or business.

Do families have to give me a 1099 or W-2?

If you're properly classified as a household employee and earn above the household employment threshold for the year, the family should issue a W-2. If you're a genuine independent contractor working for multiple families, you may not receive any form at all and are still responsible for reporting the income yourself.

DISCLAIMER: This article is for general informational purposes and does not constitute CPA, financial planning, or professional legal tax consulting advice. Tax regulations are subject to regular updates — always cross-verify your final deductions with official IRS documentation or a licensed tax professional before filing.
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